Not Wanting to be better than anyone.

Humility: wanting others to know more, be more important, be able to be more in control,  be able to do more, be more popular, be more useful, be more successful, be more recognized, etc than you. 

If you have wanted to be better than anyone in anything, you do not need to continue. You can decide to turn back to wanting others to be better than you in everything. 

Philippians 2:3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves,

James 3:16 For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.

James 3:14 But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth.