Love takes no pleasure in what hurts you.
You cannot truly love someone without hating what is hurting them. Failure to get angry with what is hurting them indicates you do not really love them. You only love them because of your "need for them to be nice to you."
Sometimes you are not aware of what hurts you. Anything that misrepresents God hurts you.
IF someone has not loved you enough to hate what hurts you, it is not God who has not loved you enough to hate what hurts you.
Leviticus 19:11 “‘Do not steal. “‘Do not lie. “‘Do not deceive one another.
Psalm 36:2 In their own eyes they flatter themselves too much to detect or hate their sin.
Psalm 45:7 You love righteousness and hate wickedness; therefore God, your God, has set you above your companions by anointing you with the oil of joy.
Psalm 97:10 Let those who love the Lord hate evil, for he guards the lives of his faithful ones and delivers them from the hand of the wicked.
Psalm 119:104 I gain understanding from your precepts; therefore I hate every wrong path.
Psalm 119:163 I hate and detest falsehood but I love your law.
Proverbs 6: 16-19
There are six things the Lord hates,
seven that are detestable to him:
a lying tongue,
hands that shed innocent blood,
a heart that devises wicked schemes,
feet that are quick to rush into evil,
a false witness who pours out lies
and a person who stirs up conflict in the community.
Proverbs 8:13 To fear the Lord is to hate evil; I hate pride and arrogance, evil behavior and perverse speech.
Proverbs 13:5 The righteous hate what is false, but the wicked make themselves a stench and bring shame on themselves.
Isaiah 61:8 For I, the Lord, love justice; I hate robbery and wrongdoing. In my faithfulness I will reward my people and make an everlasting covenant with them
Amos 5:15 Hate evil, love good; maintain justice in the courts. Perhaps the Lord God Almighty will have mercy on the remnant of Joseph.
John 2: 14-17 In the temple courts He found men selling cattle, sheep, and doves, and money changers seated at their tables. 15So He made a whip out of cords and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle. He poured out the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables. 16To those selling doves He said, “Get these out of here! How dare you turn My Father’s house into a marketplace!”
17His disciples remembered that it is written: “Zeal for Your house will consume Me.
Romans 12:9 Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.
Romans 13:10 Love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.
1 John 3:8 The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. There reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.