God does not want to condemn you
As hard as I tried to be perfect I failed in every area I tried to be perfect in. I was full of guilt, all the time trying to hide my faults by pretending to not misrepresent God while in my heart I did. I have struggled accepting God did not want to condemn me.
The definition of being justified: the hurt you have caused yourself and others is no more.
God does not want to condemn you, He wants to justify you.
God wants to help you accept His justification.
John 8:11 “No one, sir,” she said. “Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”
John 3:17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.
Acts 16:3 They replied, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.”
Romans 8:1 Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,
Matthew 9:13 But go ye and learn what that meaneth, I will have mercy, and not sacrifice: for I am not come to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance.
Luke 16:15 And he said unto them, Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God.
Isaiah 53:11 He shall see of the travail of his soul, and shall be satisfied: by his knowledge shall my righteous servant justify many; for he shall bear their iniquities.
Matthew 9:10 And it came to pass, as Jesus sat at meat in the house, behold, many publicans and sinners came and sat down with him and his disciples.
Matthew 11:19 The Son of man came eating and drinking, and they say, Behold a man gluttonous, and a winebibber, a friend of publicans and sinners. But wisdom is justified of her children.
Matthew 21:31 “Which of the two did what his father wanted?” “The first,” they answered. Jesus said to them, “Truly I tell you, the tax collectors and the prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God ahead of you.
Romans 3:30 Seeing it is one God, which shall justify the circumcision by faith, and uncircumcision through faith.
Romans 4:25 Who was delivered for our offences, and was raised again for our justification.
Romans 5:16 And not as it was by one that sinned, so is the gift: for the judgment was by one to condemnation, but the free gift is of many offences unto justification.
Romans 5:18 Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life.
Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Galations 3:8 And the scripture, foreseeing that God would justify the heathen through faith, preached before the gospel unto Abraham, saying, In thee shall all nations be blessed.